All over your writing, you say you’re not going to do this or that unless women give you what you want. Well what exactly do you want? A sign of genuine friendship (and love) is doing things for others without expecting something back. Besides, if you won’t do anything for anyone without expecting something in return, how do people see your (emotional) generosity and your worth as a friend? Of course, you need to be mindful of people taking advantage of that, but in the long run, you will vastly benefit. (Example: I am taking time to respond to your post. There is nothing really in it for me, and I certainly don’t expect anything out of it, but I would like to think that by taking some time to write you, maybe you’ll feel better about things, and even if you disagree with what I say, you’ll have thought about it and hopefully it gives you another perspective.)