Men tend to be very critical of this, in my experience … and you don’t even have to tell them it’s something you’re doing.
They can find out “through the grapevine” if you’re seeing other people – and even when you flat out tell them that does *not* mean that you’re having sex with more than one person – if you’re even having sex with anyone at all (and we’re not even going to talk right now about the astounding pressure they put on you to have it …and to look perfect when you’re doing it … and/or if they’re even considering having it with you) – then they don’t believe you. And they leave you.
And I’m wondering if there are any suggestions available to handle that kind of situation better.